cinta atau obsesi

Banyak orang harus terluka dan terbakar dulu baru mengerti...
Ada orang yang tak mau belajar dari pengalaman orang lain dan merasa berhak untuk tak mendengarkan kata hatinya.. entah kata hati atau obsesinya...
Banyak orang merasa masukan orang lain hanya membatasi eksistensinya sebagai pribadi bebas memilih...
Hmmm saya selalu belajar, belajar dari semesta ini termasuk dari orang2 sekitar saya... ketika saya memilih maka saya sadar konsekuensinya saya tanggung sendiri tanpa mengeluh dan tetap menjalani hidup!!

Tapi buat saya cinta bukanlah suatu hal yang obsesi.... sebaiknya melihat kembali, jika kita tak bisa mencintai diri kita sendiri dan rela selalu menyakiti diri sendiri maka sebenarnya walau pahit untuk diakui kita tak tau bagaimana mencintai apalagi pantas dicintai... Maka bercerminlah jika cinta itu lebih banyak menyakiti diri kita sendiri maka itu bukan cinta tapi obsesi.... Harusnya kita memberikan penghargaan tertinggi kepada diri kita untuk dicintai.....

Tapi yah, tak bisa juga memaksakan jika ada yang menganggap obsesinya itu adalah cinta

who do you think you are?

 By Spice Girl

The race is on to get out of the bottom
The top is high so your roots are forgotten
Giving is good as long as you're getting
What's driving you it's ambition and betting
I said who do you think you are
Oh, oh (do you think you are, I said)
Ooh some kind of superstar (oh, oh, oh)
You have got to swing it, shake it, move it, make it
Who do you think you are
Trust it, use it, prove it, groove it
Show me how good you are
Swing it, shake it, move it, make it
Who do you think you are
Trust it, use it, prove it, groove it
Show how good you are

You're swelling out in the wrong direction
You've got the bug, superstar you've been bitten
Your trumpet's blowing for far too long
Climbing the snake of the ladder, but you're wrong

I said who do you think you are (oh, oh)
(Do you think you are, I said)
(Oooh) Some kind of superstar (oh, oh, oh)
You have got to swing it, shake it, move it, make it
Who do you think you are
Trust it, use it, prove it, groove it
Show me how good you are
Swing it, shake it, move it, make it
Who do you think you are
Trust it, use it, prove it, groove it
Show how good you are
You have got to reach on up, never lose your soul
You have got to reach on up, never lose control

I said who do you think you are (oh, oh)
(Do you think you are, I said)
(Oooh) Some kind of superstar (oh, oh, oh)
You have got to swing it, shake it, move it, make it
Who do you think you are?
Trust it, use it, prove it, groove it
Show me how good you are
Swing it, shake it, move it, make it
Who do you think you are
Trust it, use it, prove it, groove it
Show how good you are
You have got to swing it, shake it, move it, make it
Who do you think you are?
Trust it, use it, prove it, groove it
Show me how good you are
Swing it, shake it, move it, make it
Who do you think you are
Trust it, use it, prove it, groove it
Show how good you are
Swing it, shake it, move it, make it
Who do you think you are
(Swing it, shake it, move it, make it)
Trust it, use it, prove it, groove it
Show me how good you are
(Trust it, use it, prove it, groove it)
(Swing it, shake it, move it, make it)
Trust it, use it, prove it, groove it
Show me how good you are
(Trust it, use it, prove it, groove it)